Thursday, 3 May 2012

Let's Shoppe ! Chiffon two layers =)

Assalamualaikum darlings!

hye! im back....=)

really misss dis encik belog...heee

btw, i have great news for u! yes u! and u!

lai ! lai !

ada....ada...ada....CHIFFON TWO LAYERS!

rm 45 je including postage skali tau..=)

sgt best n selesa  kalau pakai


if u r interested to buy, u can make it through my mail or just make it here. =) 
...and jangan lupa bagitahu kod sekali tau....=)


Thursday, 5 April 2012

10 Months....!!!!

Assalamualaikummm w.b.t...

Hye guys!! waaa... lame nye x update... :( Sorry.. been so busy with school stuffs...
sgt xsempat nk berblog... sempat beli COOL BLOG je.. hehe.. :P

Nothing much. But today is the day!! I like no 10. so, rase special sgt coz today is our 10th months ANNIVERSARY!! Alhamdulillah... \(^_^)/

Hehe.. LOVE U MUCH!!

That's all for now!!! See yaa!!! Take Care...!! Hugss!!

Friday, 24 February 2012

b4 and after working

Assalamualaikum lovelies!

i have something to share here...=)

let us recite this doa b4 and after working!

May Allah bless us, in everything we do......aminnnn...=)

happy Friday everyone!

Aliah =)

Thursday, 23 February 2012

siput mengawan yang tertawan :)

assalamualaikum dearies !

dis entry is basically about siput mengawan.
ive never seen siput mengawan b4 so im a little bit excited about it.
hey and in fact im so excited to share it with my darlings here.....
so lets have a look.....

eeeeewwwww or wow?


for me, MashaAllah...its!!! =)

Tuesday, 21 February 2012

perfect marriage in Islam =)

Marriage In The Eyes of AllahIt is very sad that this relationship which Allah (SWT) has established for the good has been made a source of contention, deception, trickery, tyranny, humiliation, and abuse. This is not the way marriage is supposed to be.

Allah (SWT) described marriage very differently in the Holy Quran: '. . . He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts) . . . " (Holy Quran 30:21, Yusuf Ali Translation). 

Be Partners in the Decision Making Process.
Follow the principle of 'Shura," and make decisions as a family. There will be much more harmony in the family when decisions are not imposed and everyone feels that they had some part in making them. 

Never be Emotionally
Never be emotionally, mentally, or physically abusive to your spouse. The Prophet (SAWS) never mistreated his wives. He is reported to have said: 'How could they beat their women in daytime as slaves and then sleep with them in the night?"

Be Careful of Your Words
Be very careful what you say when you are upset. Sometimes you will say things that you would never say when you were not angry. If you are angry, wait until you calm down before continuing the conversation.

Show Affection
Show affection for your mate. Be kind, gentle, and loving.

Be Your Spouse's Friend
Show interest in your mate's life. Too often, we live in the same house but know nothing about each other's lives. It would be great if the husband and wife could work together for the same cause or on the same project. They could perhaps establish a husband/wife prison ministry, take care of orphans in their home, or lead an Islamic weekend class. 

Show Appreciation
Show appreciation for what your spouse does for the family. Never make your husband feel that he is not doing good enough for the family or that you are not satisfied with his work or his efforts, unless, of course, he is truly lazy and not even trying to provide for the family. The Prophet (SAWS) was reported to have said: 'On the Day of Judgment, God will not look upon the woman who has been ungrateful to her husband." (where is this hadith found) Show your wife that you appreciate her. If she takes care of the house and the children, don't take it for granted. It is hard work, and no one likes to feel unappreciated. 

Work Together in the House

The Prophet (SAWS) is known to have helped his wives in the house. And if the Prophet (SAWS) was not above doing housework, modern Muslim husbands shouldn't feel that they are.

Communication is Important
Communication, Communication, Communication! This is the big word in counseling. And it should be. Husbands and wives need to talk to each other. It is better to deal with problems early and honestly than to let them pile up until an explosion occurs.

Forget Past Problems
Don't bring up past problems once they have been solved.

Live Simply
Don't be jealous of those who seem to be living a more luxurious life than your family. The 'rizq" is from Allah (SWT). In order to develop the quality of contentment, look at those people who have less than you, not those who have more. Thank Allah (SWT) for the many blessings in your life. 

Give Your Spouse Time Alone
If your mate doesn't want to be with you all the time, it doesn't mean he or she doesn't love you. People need to be alone for various reasons. Sometimes they want to read, to think about their problems, or just to relax. Don't make them feel that they are committing a sin.

Admit Your Mistakes
When you make a mistake, admit it. When your mate makes a mistake, excuse him or her easily. If possible, never go to sleep angry with each other.

Physical Relationship is Important
Be available to your mate sexually, and don't let your sexual relationship be characterized by selfishness. The Prophet (SAWS) was reported to have said: 'It is not appropriate that you fall upon your wives like a beast but you must send a message of love beforehand."

Have Meals Together
Try to eat together as a family when possible. Show the cook and the dishwasher, whether it is the husband or the wife, appreciation for his or her efforts. The Prophet (SAWS) did not complain about food that was put before him.

Be Mindful of Your discussion Topics
Never discuss with others things about your marriage that your spouse wouldn't like you to discuss, unless there is an Islamic reason to do so. Some husbands and wives, believe it or not, complain to others about their mate's physical appearance. This is a recipe for disaster. Information about your intimate relations should be kept between you and your spouse.

Many of us treat our spouses in ways that we would never treat others. With others, we try to be polite, kind, and patient. With our spouses, we often do not show these courtesies. Of course, we are usually with our spouses at our worst times --- when we are tired and frustrated after a hard day. After a bad day at the office, husbands usually come home angry and on edge. The wife has probably also had a hard day with the children and the housework. Wives and husbands should discuss this potential time bomb so that if they are short-tempered with each other during these times, they will understand the reasons rather than automatically thinking that their spouse no longer loves them. 

Good marriages require patience, kindness, 
humility, sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and hard work. Following these principles should help any marriage to improve. The essence of them all can be summed up in one sentence: Always treat your spouse the way you would like to be treated. If you follow this rule, your marriage will have a much greater chance for success. If you discard this rule, failure is just around the corner.


things to ponder...a REMINDER to myself and my lovelies out there...

have a good day everyone!

assalamualaikum =)

gOOd Morning teacher !

alhamdulillah, sudah sebulan diriku ini berkhidmat mendidik anak bangsa

Saturday, 11 February 2012

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